Patricia Ohanian Blog- Forgetting and Technology 4/26/2020
When I watched Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, I felt some sort of deep connection to it.
Like it was a book I had already read or a dear story close to my heart.
Now that I have had some time to think about it I know why,
Our generation has the habit of deleting.
We break up with someone we delete, block, report, remove, photoshop.
We have a fight with a friend we delete, block, report, remove, photoshop.
We have a part of our life that is painful, we have a time where we gain weight, where we have acne, where we had an awful haircut, where we were crying, where we didn't match;
delete, block, report, remove, photoshop.
Our generation has the unique ability to delete, block, report, remove, photoshop everything we want out of our virtual lives... out of our mind.
We only want to save the memories that are spotless.
Maybe this is why our marriages don't last, our relationships are materialistic, and our friends are more about likes than about conversations, trips, and dinners.
If you can delete everything you dont want to remember, the bad times, the good times that you didnt look good in, or even the good times with someone who didn't work out,
how much of our lives are we really going to have left?
We need to stop deleting, blocking, reporting, removing, photoshoping;
and start
loving, accepting, laughing, fixing, and living.
Like it was a book I had already read or a dear story close to my heart.
Now that I have had some time to think about it I know why,
Our generation has the habit of deleting.
We break up with someone we delete, block, report, remove, photoshop.
We have a fight with a friend we delete, block, report, remove, photoshop.
We have a part of our life that is painful, we have a time where we gain weight, where we have acne, where we had an awful haircut, where we were crying, where we didn't match;
delete, block, report, remove, photoshop.
Our generation has the unique ability to delete, block, report, remove, photoshop everything we want out of our virtual lives... out of our mind.
We only want to save the memories that are spotless.
Maybe this is why our marriages don't last, our relationships are materialistic, and our friends are more about likes than about conversations, trips, and dinners.
If you can delete everything you dont want to remember, the bad times, the good times that you didnt look good in, or even the good times with someone who didn't work out,
how much of our lives are we really going to have left?
We need to stop deleting, blocking, reporting, removing, photoshoping;
and start
loving, accepting, laughing, fixing, and living.
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